Consider me strange, but I actually look forward to the beginning of Lent each year. I see it as an important time to be introspective, to evaluate where I am right now in my relationship with Jesus (and the entire Trinity), and to attempt to make some positive changes I hope will result in a growth in holiness. I also need to repent for my sins.
Traditionally, the practices recommended during this season are prayer, fasting and almsgiving (charity).
How can I pray better? I can begin by finding and keeping a set time each day to pray. (My own preference is praying with the Blessed Sacrament.) I also should be reading and reflecting daily on the Sacred Scriptures, praying the Rosary, making the Stations of the Cross and reading an inspiring Catholic book regularly. When I am driving in the car, I also like to put on an inspirational Catholic talk or discussion to listen to while driving. It certainly beats the garbage, sometimes called music, that we often find on the radio.
[Priests are also required to pray our Divine Office (Liturgy of the
Fasting includes food but should go beyond simply not eating. The only two fast days (one simple meal) required by the Church during Lent are Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. Ash Wednesday and all the Fridays of Lent are also days of abstinence (no meat). However, we additionally can fast from things like the TV, the computer/internet, video games, the radio, from smoking or drinking, from superfluous shopping, etc. In essence, we can do without—make an act of self-denial—and try to incorporate into our lives something more spiritually beneficial instead.
How charitable am I? Do I regularly contribute to and support my church? Do I have some other favorite charity to which I give? Do I volunteer my time or my skills to help others without seeking compensation or recognition? Do I visit and help the sick or the elderly? Do I volunteer at the hospital? Do I think of others more than myself?
The practices that I observe for Lent can really become an opportunity to change my way of living. I can incorporate more permanently various ways of behaving that open my heart and my life more completely to God. I can turn my life over to Jesus and take up my cross daily and follow Him. (See Luke 9:23)
I realize I am a sinner continually in need of the mercy of God. Like all humans (except Jesus and Mary, of course!), my past life has its share of sin. I am not proud of this. Therefore, I should seriously consider some acts of penance during Lent in reparation for my sins. Making a thorough, heartfelt sacramental confession of my sin is a good way to start.
We should be spiritually mature enough to realize that the more we keep trying and letting God control our lives, the more we open ourselves to His grace of conversion. Conversion is a lifelong process of turning away from sin and turning towards the Gospel message. We turn our lives over to God.
On Ash Wednesday, when the ashes are placed on our foreheads, do we actually intend to change, or is this just an act of empty show? Only God knows what’s in our hearts and how much we really do love Him.
Please make this Lent a time of deep, spiritual conversion.
Fr. Ed Namiotka