A Pastor's Thoughts (Fr. Ed Namiotka)
The thoughts and writings of Fr. Ed Namiotka as taken from his weekly parish bulletin columns.
Sunday, August 9, 2026
Wednesday, August 5, 2026
The Assumption and the "Wedding of the Sea"

Dear Parishioners,
There is a Holy Day coming
up next week: the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary into Heaven. This year,
because of the way it falls on the calendar on a Saturday, the obligation to
attend Mass is removed. However, it does not mean that it is any less holy of a day.
The Assumption celebrates
the Blessed Virgin Mary, after her earthly life was complete, being
taken up body and soul into Heaven. According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church (CCC):
“Finally the Immaculate Virgin,
preserved free from all stain of original sin, when the course of her earthly
life was finished, was taken up body and soul into heavenly glory, and exalted
by the Lord as Queen over all things, so that she might be the more fully
conformed to her Son, the Lord of lords and conqueror of sin and death.” The
Assumption of the Blessed Virgin is a singular participation in her Son's
Resurrection and an anticipation of the resurrection of other Christians. . . .
(CCC, #966)
Growing up in Wildwood, NJ leaves me with many fond memories. One of these was
the celebration of the vigil of the Assumption at St. Ann’s Church each
August 14th. When I was young, the Vigil Mass was usually packed (standing
room only). St. Ann’s could hold approximately 3000 people and I can
recall seeing it year after year wall to wall with
people. Unlike the famous celebration in Atlantic City which takes place during the day on August 15th,
the Wildwood tradition was/is a vigil Mass followed by procession down to the
beach for the Wedding of the Sea ceremony. Most years, the
bishop would preside during this ceremony in both locations.
At many seashore towns, the Assumption
has become somehow tied into the Wedding of the Sea ceremony
which had an entirely different history and origin. Apparently the
custom found its way here from a couple of Venetian historical commemorations
and a ceremony in which the Doge (chief magistrate) of Venice
would "marry" the sea each year, and throw a blessed ring into the
lagoon as a sign of eternal fidelity. (Interestingly, the original
Venetian ceremony apparently took place in conjunction with the celebration of
the Ascension of Our Lord rather than the Assumption).
The Press of
Atlantic City reported a variation of the origin of the custom:
According to tradition, the ceremony
commemorates an event in the life of the Bishop of Cervia in Italy, Paul Barbo who
later became Pope Paul II. The Bishop is said to have been returning by
ship from Venice on the Feast of the Assumption in 1445 when he was caught in a
storm. The Bishop, it is said, calmed the storm by prayer and throwing his
pastoral ring into the sea. (6/16/10)
Here at St. Thomas the Apostle we will process to the ocean after
the 6:30 PM Mass on Friday, August 14th, the
vigil of the Assumption. I hope that you will join us in the public profession
of our Catholic faith.
Throughout history, it was not unusual that Christians would attempt to “Christianize” various secular customs and traditions. No matter what the exact origin of the Wedding of the Sea is, as we celebrate the Assumption of the Blessed Virgin Mary into Heaven, it is more important to recall the honored place that Mary, the Mother of God, has in salvation history and that her life on earth was worthy of an eternal reward in Heaven. Where Mary has gone, we hope to follow!
Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us!
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Saturday, August 1, 2026
Tuesday, July 28, 2026
"Sir, Give Us This Bread Always"
One of the things I enjoy
(in the food category) when I vacation in Europe or in parts
of the world influenced by European cooking is the freshly baked bread. When in
Europe, I like watching people heading to a bakery or local grocery store to
get a baguette, ciriola, or some type of freshly baked loaf. It is definitely
not like what we find in most American supermarkets in the typical bread
aisle. Many European-style breads are simply outstanding (in my
humble opinion). Crispy crust, soft inside, great taste. . . . Smother a slice in butter with a cup of coffee
and I’m perfectly happy for breakfast.
I thought of these things
when I read about the multiplication of the loaves (and fish) and feeding the
crowd in this Sunday’s gospel (Mt. 14: 13-21). This
miracle is found in all four gospels and is theologically seen as a
foreshadowing of and anticipation of the Most Holy Eucharist.
Bread is a staple of life
for many people throughout history. In Jesus’ time it was part of the
everyday meal as was table wine. He used both of these common elements in
an extraordinary way when He was at table with his disciples before His
death—the Last Supper.
Bread also had some spiritual
significance throughout history for the Jewish and later Christian
peoples. The Jewish people eat unleavened bread to commemorate
their freedom from Egypt when they had to flee before they had time for the
bread to rise (Ex. 34:18). When the Jews were
wandering in the desert after their exodus from Egypt, God gave them manna to
eat—mysterious “bread from heaven.” (Ex. 16) The
Jews also kept showbread or bread of presence—twelve loaves
representing the twelve tribes of Israel—before God in the sanctuary of
the Temple. Later, Jesus famously multiplied the loaves and fish, to feed
the hungry multitudes, as we see in this week’s Gospel passage (Mt.
14:13-21; see also, Mk. 6:34-42, Lk. 9:13-17 and Jn. 6:1-15). The
use of bread comes to a spiritual summit in Jesus’ designation of it as His
body at the Last Supper (Mt. 26: 26, Mk. 14:22,
Lk. 22:19, 1 Cor. 11:23-24).
In the Gospel of St.
John, Chapter 6, we read what is referred to as Jesus’ Bread of Life
Discourse. It is seen as a commentary on the significance and value of
the Most Holy Eucharist. We hear some definitive statements made by
Jesus: I am the bread of life. . . I
am the bread that came down from heaven. . . Unless
you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink His blood, you do not have life within. .
. Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal
life, and I will raise him on the last day. . . My
flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink. . . .
The Real Presence
of Jesus in the Most Holy Eucharist is one of the core teachings of
the Catholic faith. We do not believe in some mere
symbolic presence, but take Jesus literally—at his word—in our
understanding of this mystery. Over the centuries, the term transubstantiation—a change in substance (but
not in appearance)—has been used to explain this essential
dogma.
When we approach the Most
Holy Eucharist, we approach Jesus—our Lord, God and Savior. He
deserves our love, reverence and respect. Like some of the people in
the Gospel, our attitude toward the Holy Eucharist should be one of desire,
anticipation, thanksgiving and joy:
“Sir,
give us this bread always.” (John 6: 34)
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Sunday, July 26, 2026
Tuesday, July 21, 2026
Setting Some Priorities
Dear Parishioners,
As a pastor for many years
with numerous previous assignments, I have observed how people often have
various ideas regarding how a parish should be organized or operate. We
certainly can differ in opinion when asking some important questions: What
should a parish's priorities be? What activities or programs should we support?
Where should we place our time, energy and resources?
Similarly, people can
disagree on their expectation of the role of a pastor. We need a pastor
who is a holy, spiritual leader . . . a talented administrator . . . a gifted
fundraiser . . . a creative, dynamic shepherd . . . a riveting
preacher . . . a brilliant teacher . . . etc., etc. Let me remind
everyone that although Jesus was indeed the Son of God and the most perfect man
who ever lived, even He did not meet certain people's expectations and was
nailed to a cross by His dissenters. Any pastor, with his human flaws and
weaknesses, will sadly fall short of people's expectations.
People should know that
a priest, by his ordination, is meant to offer the
sacrifice on behalf of the people. I was ordained to offer the Holy
Sacrifice of the Mass for my people. I am not primarily
a counselor, social worker, fundraiser, etc. I am a pastor/priest whose primary
roles are to preach and teach, to sanctify (administer
the sacraments) and to govern (the parish). These are my
priorities here or wherever I may be assigned by the bishop.
So, I want to spell out as
clearly as possible how I envision the situation here at St. Thomas the Apostle, having been pastor for only a couple weeks. You should know what I
am thinking.
All parishes must
emphasize the need for continual growth. To achieve such, we should see a
commitment by parishioners to regular Mass attendance, to adequate financial
support, and to volunteering. Without younger families, more children and young
adults as well as faithful Mass attendance by all, we could head down a
dangerous path with a very uncertain parish future.
Priority One. Pray
more. Attend Mass weekly (especially, if you are not currently
doing so). Go to confession (the Sacrament of Penance and
Reconciliation) regularly. Be an active part of the parish.
Priority Two. Bring
people to Christ. We must evangelize! Invite people to Mass. Ask
people if they ever thought about becoming a Catholic. Talk about your faith.
Any future parish activities or suggestions first need to ask this
question: How is my idea going to bring people to Christ and help to
grow our congregation? How am I making new disciples for
Christ? In my opinion, this will be time well-spent.
Priority Three. Seek
out our lukewarm or inactive Catholics. There are far too many
non-practicing Catholics. We need to counter any utilitarian mentality where
people come to the Church only when they need something or find it personally
convenient. A sad joke that has circulated church circles for years was that
people would seek out the Catholic Church only to be hatched (baptism), matched (marriage)
and dispatched (funeral rites). We have often labeled inactive
members as Christmas and Easter Catholics. The
point behind the labels is that too many Catholics no longer practice their
faith regularly. Catholics primarily worship through the Mass. The
term "New Evangelization" has been used to
indicate the task of bringing back those baptized Catholics who no longer
practice their faith. This should be important to us all. Start with any
inactive family members.
While the above list is by
no means complete, we must start somewhere and this is where I think our
collective energy currently needs to be spent.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Monday, July 20, 2026
Tuesday, July 14, 2026
Parables and the Kingdom of Heaven
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