Dear Parishioners,
When Jesus’ disciples asked Him to teach them to pray, the
Sacred Scriptures tell us that He taught them the Our Father. (Mt. 6: 9-13; Lk
11:2-4) The Gospels record Jesus referring
to God as Father over 175
times. Jesus also revealed a certain
relationship, privilege and intimacy with God
the Father by His reference to God as Abba (Mk. 14:36). There was a definite association that
Jesus made between God, the Almighty
Creator and the concept or image of Father.
With Father's Day having occurred last Sunday, I take a few moments to reflect on what it means to be a loving father.
Most likely we will process the concept of fatherhood through our own earthly
fathers. Hopefully, they are (were)
wonderful, caring men who are (were) sincerely devoted to their wives and
children. Probably they had their flaws
and imperfections. Maybe they were not
around as much as one would desire or may have been, in some instances, absent from one’s life
altogether. Sadly, some may have
a difficulty relating to a father-figure
at all, because their own fathers were abusive to some degree. There are far too many possible scenarios to
mention all of them here.
Yet, when it comes to an understanding of God as Father, I suggest thinking of God
as the best, perfect or ideal father. He’s the one without the flaws and
imperfections, the one ever-present, who loves His children without limits or conditions. He’s the Father
that Jesus tried to help us know, understand and love.
The fathers among
us need to strive to become a father more
and more resembling the Heavenly Father that Jesus taught us about. Fathers need to make every effort to love, cherish and honor their wives and
children with an unconditional love
and respect. It’s far too common in today’s society for
men to father a child biologically,
and then not accept the many responsibilities that come from bringing
that child into the world. A good father
is accountable for his actions.
A loving father needs to
provide, to protect, to teach and to lead on both an earthly
and spiritual level. A child needs food, clothing, shelter, and an
education, all of which a father can help provide. However, a child also needs the love,
compassion, forgiveness, and understanding that should come from a caring father. A child should have a spiritual leader to look up to—a type of priest for the domestic
church (family)—who can witness to the importance and relevance of God
in one’s life by prayer, sacrifice and charitable example.
I think that St.
Joseph is someone who fathers can
look up to and pray to in the quest to become a better, more-perfect father.
Faced with the many challenges that came with caring for Jesus, Joseph
is seen in the Scriptures as righteous—a devout
observer of the Mosaic Law. (Mt. 1:19)
He was entrusted by God the Father to care for His Son Jesus as a foster-father. Prayers for his intercession seem quite
essential when taking on the responsibility of father.
My prayers are with all those who are addressed as father! Thanks for the
many sacrifices that you make for your wife
and children.
As one who is also addressed as “Father,” and who is called to be the spiritual leader of my Church family, I realize many of the duties and obligations that come with being a biological father! It’s not always an easy task, but it is certainly one that I have come to love and cherish more each day.
As one who is also addressed as “Father,” and who is called to be the spiritual leader of my Church family, I realize many of the duties and obligations that come with being a biological father! It’s not always an easy task, but it is certainly one that I have come to love and cherish more each day.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
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