The thoughts and writings of Fr. Ed Namiotka as taken from his weekly parish bulletin columns.
Sunday, February 15, 2026
Tuesday, February 10, 2026
Ash Wednesday
Dear Parishioners,
I am glad that Lent is
here. It officially begins this year on February 18, 2026 with Ash Wednesday.
I personally need to practice a bit
more penance in my life and to focus more on the suffering and death of Jesus. I
can take too much for granted—even the mercy of God that has been shown to me! I
need to find additional time for prayer, fasting and almsgiving as
the Gospel reminds all of us. If used the way it is intended, this Lenten season
can be a period of personal spiritual growth and allows for proper preparation for Holy Week and Easter.
Speaking with brutal
honesty, however, there is one thing that really annoys me. It is those
multiple phone calls that come to most parishes on Ash Wednesday asking: “Father,
what time are ashes?” Why is there a tremendous preoccupation
with ashes? Why can’t the question be: “What time
is Mass?” or “When can I receive Holy
Communion?” What is it about those ashes?
Ashes, after all, are a reminder of our mortality: Remember that you are dust, and to dust
you shall return. They also tell us of our need to do penance: Repent, and believe in the Gospel.
It is my hope that
people do not see ashes (burnt palm) as something that
they “need to get,” above and beyond the desire to attend Mass and to
receive Holy Communion on Ash Wednesday (or on any given Sunday for
that matter). That is the reason why I actually prefer not to
have only a Liturgy of the Word service with the distribution
of ashes. My thought process is this: some burnt palm on the forehead
(a sacramental) is significantly less important than receiving Jesus,
the Bread of Life, in Holy Communion.
Masses (with the
distribution of ashes) on Ash Wednesday at St. Thomas More Parish are at 9 AM and 5 PM. Also,
please remember that Ash Wednesday is a day of fasting (one
full meal) and abstinence from
eating meat. With Good Friday, these are the only two days
that we are required by the Church to fast during the entire year!
As Catholics, unfortunately, I think we have lost the concept of what it means
to do serious penance for our sins.
Many of us tend to do only that which is minimally required, at best.
You have heard me preach
time and again that we need to take advantage of the opportunity for the
Sacrament of Penance (confession) on a regular basis. My recommendation is
monthly confession. If you can go an entire month without sinning—and that
includes “in my thoughts and in my words,
in what I have done and what I have failed to do”—I want you for my spiritual director! I want
your advice and counsel because I can’t seem to achieve this!
With the world in the
condition that it is in and the vast majority of Catholics lukewarm in the
practice of the faith, we need to take seriously the call to turn away from
sin, to repent and to follow the Gospel.
Ash Wednesday and Lent
are a great time to start!
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Getting Ready for Lent
Dear Parishioners,
As I have said many times
before, I actually look forward to the beginning of Lent. I see it as
a special time to be introspective, to think about where I am right now in
my relationship with Jesus, and to attempt to make some positive changes that I
hope will result in a growth in holiness.
Traditionally, the practices recommended during this season are prayer, fasting and almsgiving (charity).
How
can I pray better? I can begin
by finding and keeping a set time each day to
pray. (My own preference is praying in the presence of the Blessed Sacrament.) I also should
be reading and reflecting daily on the Sacred Scriptures, praying
the Rosary, making the Stations of the Cross and reading an
inspiring Catholic book regularly. When I am driving in the car, if I
do not take advantage of some quiet, I like to put on an informative or
uplifting Catholic talk or discussion to listen to while driving. It
certainly beats the garbage that we often find on the radio.
Fasting includes food but
should go beyond simply not eating. The only two fast days (one
simple meal) required by the Church during Lent are Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. Ash Wednesday and all
the Fridays of Lent are also days of abstinence (no
meat). However, we can also fast from things like the TV, the
computer/internet, video games, the radio, from smoking or drinking, from
superfluous shopping, etc. In essence, we can do without—make an act
of self-denial—and try to incorporate into our lives something more spiritually
beneficial.
How charitable am I? Do I
regularly contribute to and support my church and diocese? Do I have some
other favorite charity to which I give? Do I volunteer my time or my
skills to help others without seeking compensation or recognition? Do
I call (or visit?) the sick or the elderly? Do I think
of others more than myself?
The practices that I observe
for Lent can really become an opportunity to change my way of living. I can
incorporate more permanently various ways of behaving that open my heart and my
life more completely to God. I can turn my life over
to Jesus and take up my cross daily and follow
Him. (See Luke 9:23)
I realize that I am a
sinner continually in need of the mercy of God. Like all humans
(except Jesus and the Blessed Virgin Mary, of course!), my life has not
been without sin. I am not proud of this. Therefore, I should
seriously consider some acts of penance during Lent in reparation for my
sins. Making a thorough, heartfelt sacramental confession is a good way to start.
We should be spiritually
mature enough to realize that the more we keep trying and letting God control
our lives, the more we open ourselves to His grace
of conversion. Conversion is a lifelong process of turning away from sin and
turning towards the Gospel message.
On Ash Wednesday, when the ashes are placed on our foreheads reminding us both of our own mortality and the call to do penance, do we actually intend to change, or is this just an act of empty show? Only God knows what’s in our hearts and how much we really do love Him.
Please attempt to make
this Lent a time of deep, spiritual conversion.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Monday, February 9, 2026
Wednesday, February 4, 2026
Super Bowl Sunday
Dear Parishioners,
Super Bowl Sunday.
In our secular society, the importance of the
events of Super Bowl Sunday seem to
surpass what I would consider much more important Sundays like Palm
Sunday, Easter Sunday and
Pentecost Sunday.
In much earlier times, for peoples
in Christian cultures the cathedrals (and other churches) of
the city were typically the largest and most magnificent buildings in
tribute to Almighty God. What are usually the largest buildings in our
cities today? They are our sports stadiums. Unfortunately,
they have become the new cathedrals. What are they a tribute
to other than ourselves?
Sports figures are often held up as people
to emulate and honor. It seems to me that the martyrs and saints (and
I don’t mean those guys from New Orleans!) held this position of esteem at one
time.
People will pay insane prices for
a ticket to view the Super Bowl live. Thousands of
dollars are spent in Super Bowl weekend packages. Advertisers
are willing to pay millions of dollars for 15 seconds of commercial notoriety. And
that poor old George Washington or Abraham Lincoln bill still found in many
collection baskets is perhaps seen as adequate to support the local church and
its activities—if the people go
to church and give at
all.
We gather together with family and
friends to share pizza, wings, sandwiches, sodas and different types and
strengths of “liquid refreshment.” Wouldn’t it be nice if we could see the
same enthusiasm and participation when it comes to gathering around the table
of the Lord to share the Bread of Life and the Cup of
Eternal Salvation?
I would hate to be seen as a kill-joy, party
pooper or spoilsport (no pun intended), but
does it not seem that our priorities sometimes are out of whack? We live
for today, for the moment. Eat, drink and be merry for tomorrow we die. Did
the Epicureans have it right? They propounded an ethic of individual pleasure as the sole or chief good in life.
Whether you will root for those
guys from Seattle or the ones from New England (or
couldn’t care less since your preferred team is out of it), people
throughout the world will be fixated for a few hours on a football game.
We all might be amused by some of the cleaver or funny television commercials
during the game. However, I must confess that in recent years I have been
generally unimpressed by the halftime entertainment. Other than the fact that he
is from Puerto Rico, I know nothing about Bad
Bunny, the headliner this year.
Sadly, I think that if Christ were
to decide to return to earth during this game, some people would
ask him to wait at least until it is over. What a sad commentary on the world
we live in.
Enjoy the game!
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Monday, February 2, 2026
Monday, January 26, 2026
The Beatitudes
Dear Parishioners,
Are you truly happy? Are
you blessed?
Let’s be brutally honest
for a few minutes. The world (secular society) holds up
certain things for us and tells us we will be happy if we have them and
miserable without them: pleasure, power, wealth and fame. Preachers
of the “prosperity gospel” tell us that we are blessed by God
when we are showered with a type of earthly success—primarily money and
health. While wanting to have a good, happy life in this world is not a
bad thing in and of itself, whenever we place our desire for things or on
self above our love for God, we create a type of false god. Pleasure,
power, wealth and fame can all become false gods in our lives.
What does Jesus teach us
in the Sacred Scriptures? Let’s begin with a very difficult statement about
the cross in our lives: "Then Jesus said to his
disciples, Whoever wishes to come after me must deny himself, take up
his cross, and follow me. For whoever wishes to save his life will lose
it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.” (Mt. 16:
24-25)
Moreover, the Beatitudes (Mt. 5:
3-12) seem to contradict what the world touts
as essential for happiness. Blessed are the poor is spirit seems
to rail against a call to accumulate material wealth. Blessed
are the meek seems to undermine those seeking to
obtain power over others. Blessed are they who mourn seems
far removed from those who seek pleasure as their motivation. And blessed
are you when they insult you and persecute you
and utter every kind of evil against you falsely because of me doesn’t
seem to command the respect and honor craved for by so
many. In fact, Jesus points out that those persons are blessed, when
the direct opposite of what the world propagates is practiced and lived.
Why is this? First,
worldly vision is shortsighted. Eternity and even God are seen as some pie
in the sky ideas and we are told that we must live for this world only. Eat,
drink and be merry for tomorrow we die! I remind everyone that heaven and
hell are eternal, not this world. In addition, Jesus demonstrated for us
a sacrificial love (picking
up a cross) which,
unfortunately, requires some degree of pain and suffering. A cross was a
means of public execution and the early Christians needed no reminder of its
brutality. Yet, God freely chose it as a means of our redemption. Jesus
accepted His cross.
The ultimate decision
which we all must make is whether we choose to live for this world with its
temporary pleasures and sorrows or to live for eternity
and to desire union with God. It requires a modicum of faith to
see things with the proper perspective. It also requires the support of a
Church and its sacraments to strengthen our resolve and keep us on the right
path. God’s grace is available, if we chose to accept it.
It has always intrigued me
how many accounts of the martyrs tell how they sang, prayed and bore final
witness even when facing brutal torture and death. Self-giving,
sacrificial love can be contagious when we witness it. “This is my
commandment: love one another as I love you. No one has greater love than
this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” (Jn. 15:
12-13)
I dare say that too few of
us have come to such a realization in our lives.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Sunday, January 25, 2026
Wednesday, January 21, 2026
Intentional Disciples
Dear Parishioners,
In the coming months you will be hearing about a specific path the Diocese of Camden will be taking regarding the task of evangelization. We will be examining the thoughts of the author Sherry A. Weddell and her book Forming Intentional Disciples: The Path to Knowing and Following Jesus. Bishop Williams has asked all of his priests as well as parish staff members and others throughout the diocese to read and discuss this book. I bring this to your attention as an invitation for anyone interested to join us.
It is well known that there are too many Catholics who may be baptized and have received their sacraments but are no longer practicing their faith or consider themselves Jesus' disciples. People say things like they are spiritual but not religious and ever-more-increasingly declare no formal affiliation to a church or religious denomination.
The main question pursued in this book is: Are we intentional disciples of Jesus? Do we know Jesus personally and are we committed to a radical lifestyle (discipleship) specifically following His teachings?
Bishop Williams has seen positive results back in his home Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis and wants to replicate their success here in our diocese. With the help of Sherry Weddell and another Catholic evangelist and author Jeff Cavins, our diocese is fostering this journey towards an intentional discipleship of Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.
Some of the topics along the path to intentional discipleship discussed in the book include trust, curiosity, openness, seeking and conversion. The meaning and understanding of God's grace and its fruitfulness (or lack thereof) is treated as well. The specifics of the book make good topics for discussion and are thought-provoking with the intended purpose of bringing more people to know and love Jesus as His disciples.
The Gospel for this Sunday (Mt. 4: 12-23) shows Jesus calling His initial disciples, who were fishermen, to become "fishers of men." In fact, by our baptism we should all seriously consider the task of making other disciples as He commanded His followers at His Ascension:
All power in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, until the end of the age. (Mt. 28: 18-20)
I have stated before that Christianity is not like a spectator sport in which we simply watch others perform from our seats (or pews). True disciples have to take on difficult tasks such as pick up our crosses daily, love our enemies, pray for those who persecute us, repent and make other disciples.
Whether we are ultimately successful in this or any task will be left for God to judge. However, I think it is important for us continually to try to bring people to Jesus. To do nothing is not an option. The words of St. Teresa of Calcutta seem appropriate: “God has not called me to be successful; He has called me to be faithful.”
Be faithful to the Lord as His disciple! It is always our personal (intentional) choice to do so.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Thursday, January 15, 2026
Wednesday, January 14, 2026
Concern for the Most Vulnerable
Dear Parishioners,
Thursday, January 22nd, is
the Day of Prayer for the Legal Protection of Unborn Children. I
wonder how many people are actually aware of this.
When Roe v. Wade was officially
overturned by the Supreme Court on June 24, 2022, I stated that the
battle for the rights of unborn (or preborn) children would need to continue on
the local (i.e., state) level. New Jersey and its current majority of
legislators are, sadly, by no means “pro-life.” Rather, the call for the
protection of so-called “abortion rights” unfortunately continues. Do we
ever seriously contemplate the rights of all the vulnerable children yet to be
born?
In actuality, the right
to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness is clearly stated in
the U.S. Declaration of Independence. Our founders recognized that
people have a right to live in this world. Logically, if humans create a
new human life, then that new person now has a right to exist. (This is
abundantly clear even before we intensify matters by bringing any
mention of God or morality into the picture.) From a merely
human perspective, innocent, vulnerable human life needs
protection in similar manner to various legislation enacted to protect the
bald eagles' eggs, baby seals, elephants from being hunted for their tusks,
dogs from being used in deadly dogfights, etc.
As Christians, we take this situation a step further by realizing that every person is created in the image and likeness of God. We believe that God elevated our human dignity by becoming one of us in the Incarnation of Jesus. We acknowledge that every born or preborn baby has both a developing body and an immortal soul destined for eternity. We hold to timeless precepts such as Thou shalt not kill. We believe that medicine and technology minimally should do no harm to the patient (human person), and certainly not deliberately destroy him or her in the womb.
The problem now exists where
people have become much too comfortable in their sin. What might have
seemed so obvious in the past—a grave sin or repulsive evil—is now accepted or
even glorified. Sin dulls the conscience and blocks the
intellect. The lies that have been uttered over and over again begin to be
believed and then held as “truths” and “rights.” Good becomes bad and bad
becomes good. Our world winds up upside down.
Unfortunately, too many
people do not want to upset the status quo. Keep your mouth shut! In many cases you would seriously risk
being cancelled. I hope people are
beginning to wake up and not fear to speak up! Free speech is something guaranteed in our Constitution—in the Bill
of Rights, to be precise.
Yes, we have a long way to
go before things change for the good. However, left without resistance we
see evil advance in (formerly, obviously repulsive) acts
like infanticide, euthanasia, the acceptance of pedophilia or ephebophilia, a
distortion of marriage, recognition of sodomy (and other acts) as sexual
alternatives, dissatisfaction with one’s gender, propagation and use of
artificial contraception and various abortifacients, a flourishing pornography
industry, etc. etc. This could never happen in an enlightened, civilized
society, could it? Just look around you. Our societal values resemble
godless, pagan and not Christian cultures.
While the message of the Gospel is suppressed, minimized, mocked, and seen as outdated and irrelevant, what will it take to bring people to their knees and acknowledge the need for Jesus Christ and His true Church?
I truly fear to ask this question.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Tuesday, January 6, 2026
Baptism of the Lord
Dear Parishioners,
Monday, January 5, 2026
Two Saints in the USA
The Epiphany of the Lord
Dear Parishioners,
We three kings of Orient are, bearing gifts we traverse afar.
As far as I can remember, this popular carol, referring to the three kings from the East, has been sung annually during the Christmas season. The carol itself was written in the 19th century by the Rev. John Henry Hopkins, Jr., an Episcopalian clergyman. Popular folklore has grown over the years regarding them, although the Sacred Scriptures dedicates only twelve verses to them in St. Matthew’s Gospel (Mt. 2: 1-12).
First of all they are actually called magi in the bible—not kings. Speculation has it that they were astrologers, although the term itself sometimes refers to a magician or a Zoroastrian priest. In any case, they were observing a star in their pursuit of the newborn King of the Jews. There is no mention that there are actually three of them, but the number of gifts seems to lead people to draw that conclusion.
With time the magi have been given names—Caspar (Kaspar), Melchior and Balthazar—although there is no biblical basis for this either. We are told that they brought three special gifts to the Christ Child—each seemingly with a unique significance: gold, frankincense and myrrh. While there are varied interpretations of the meaning of these gifts, gold is usually seen as a royal tribute paid to a king, frankincense as a sign of divinity and myrrh as an embalming oil as a symbol of death or, perhaps, healing.
In the Roman or Latin rite of the Catholic Church, Epiphany (a manifestation) celebrates the revelation that Jesus was the Son of God. It focuses primarily on this revelation to the three kings, wise men or magi, but it also focuses on Jesus’ baptism in the Jordan and at the wedding feast at Cana. In the Eastern rites of the Catholic Church, Theophany—as Epiphany is known in the East—commemorates the manifestation of Jesus’ divinity at his baptism in the River Jordan.
What is the spiritual significance of this event known as the Epiphany? According to the Catechism of the Catholic Church:
In the magi, representatives of the neighboring
pagan religions, the Gospel sees the first-fruits of the nations, who welcome
the good news of salvation through the Incarnation. The magi’s coming to
Jerusalem in order to pay homage to the king of the Jews shows that they seek
in Israel, in the messianic light of the star of David, the one who will be
king of the nations. Their coming means that pagans can discover Jesus and
worship him as Son of God and Savior of the world only by turning toward the
Jews and receiving from them the messianic promise as contained in the Old
Testament. (Catechism of the Catholic Church, # 528)
In Spain, the Philippines and various other countries throughout the Spanish-speaking world, various traditions have sprung up surrounding the Three Kings with forms of gift-giving attached. In a European tradition, the initials of the king’s names are marked in chalk above the doors of homes (for example, C+M+B or K+M+B) as a blessing for the New Year. Other cultures celebrate the kings with a special ring cake concealing a figure of the baby Jesus inside.
No matter what traditions surround the celebration of the Epiphany, we need to remember always that Jesus Christ is King!
O come let us adore Him!
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor














