The thoughts and writings of Fr. Ed Namiotka as taken from his weekly parish bulletin columns.
Wednesday, May 20, 2026
The Holy Trinity
Dear Parishioners,
Whenever we look at the mystery of
the Holy Trinity, we should realize that this is not something that
we could figure out on our own without God revealing this to
us through Jesus. If our explanation of the Trinity were merely one
opinion among many of the inner make-up of God, then God could be just about
anything that any one of us thinks or believes. One Person? Four persons?
However, as Catholic Christians we believe that Jesus—the Son of God and one of
the Persons of the Holy Trinity—revealed to us the mysterious
inner-workings of God.
God exists as three
Persons in relationship. Jesus often spoke of God as His
Father. He taught us to pray the prayer we call the “Our
Father.” He told us that “whoever has seen (Him) has seen the Father” (Jn. 14:9). He told us that “the
Father and I are one” (Jn. 10:30). We
begin to recognize this unique Father-Son relationship through
Jesus.
But Jesus did not stop
there. He also began to speak of another—an “Advocate” (Jn. 15:26), “the Spirit of Truth”, (Jn. 15:26), the “Holy Spirit” (Jn. 14:26). With time the Church
began to understand a little bit more about this third Person as
“the Lord, the Giver of Life” who “has spoken through the prophets” (cf. the
Nicene Creed).
It must have been very hard for
many of the Jewish followers of Jesus who were strict monotheists to
try to comprehend how God could be one, yet three at
the same time. Why should this be surprising to us since we still fumble
at various explanations to try to articulate this profound mystery?
As a teacher, the best analogy
that I have used over the years that helps people comprehend this mystery of
something being one and three at the same time is the analogy
of ice, water and steam. All three have the same
chemical composition (H₂O) and thus have a certain oneness, yet
there can be a manifestation in different states (ice, water and steam)
depending on temperature. While all analogies ultimately fall
short of the reality, this analogy still gives us some insight into
this profound mystery.
Then some insight might be given
by the example of a human family
where a relationship of two people in love with each other (in this case,
husband and wife) can produce a third person (baby or child) who is both complete
(a person) and entirely distinct from the other two. The family of this world may indeed reflect, in an analogous way, the
mystery of the Holy Trinity—three unique and distinct Persons in one Godhead, eternally
in love with each other.
Trying to figure out God’s make-up
is one thing. Having a personal relationship with each of
the Persons of the Trinity is something else entirely. Jesus put a human
face to God for us by taking on a human nature. And he also told us about
the unique relationship that He has with the other Persons in the
Godhead. Now we need to seek out each of these Persons of Holy Trinity in
prayer and grow in our love for each of them—three Persons in one God.
On Trinity Sunday we
rejoice in the fact that God (through Jesus) has revealed His
inner make-up to us!
Pentecost
Dear Parishioners,
Wednesday, May 13, 2026
Preparing to Move
Dear Parishioners,
Yesterday, I started packing some
of my stuff. This is not a task I look forward to doing. Sometimes I just sit
and stare. Most objects that I own have a memory attached or a unique, personal
significance. Everything in the rectory has to be packed and transported to
Brigantine, NJ over the next seven weeks.
In case you were not present at
this past weekend’s Masses when it was announced, I have been reassigned by the Bishop as the new pastor of St. Thomas the Apostle Parish in
Brigantine, effective July 1st. I replace Fr. Edward Maher who is
retiring. Fr. Michael Matveenko, the current pastor of St. Mary’s Church (on the other side of Springdale Road), will act
as administrator of St. Thomas More Parish.
The sad reality we have to face
as a parish and as a diocese is the rapidly declining number of diocesan
priests. Projections over the next decade indicate that we will have about half
of the number of diocesan priests needed to staff our current parishes.
Remember the Bishop is only ordaining one priest this year on Saturday.
There were two ordained last year. Other years there were none.
Regarding this parish, the number
of parishioners and families has traditionally been small. This situation,
unfortunately, cannot continue as the number of priests decline. We will need
to combine programs and consolidate Masses with our neighboring
parishes—particularly St. Mary’s.
Most people, including myself,
dread or resist change. We like things to remain the same. However, change can
also cause positive outcomes and lead to growth—both personal and communal. We
can meet new people, find creative solutions, and help spread the faith to a
wider group of people. Without change, we can sometimes become complacent or too
comfortable in our lives—even with sin—if we don’t improve or try to grow.
Change can be positive.
So as I prepare myself mentally,
spiritually and emotionally for another assignment, I pray that I have
contributed something positive to this parish and to your lives. No priest is
perfect and I have made my mistakes. However, I have tried to do what I thought
was best spiritually for my parish
and its parishioners. The salvation of souls is and will continue to be
my primary concern.
Have I been able to accomplish
everything that I wanted to do? Unfortunately, the answer is no. Many plans were left
undone. Any unfinished business will have to be left for someone else. Sorry
for that. Priests are all too human. We struggle. We fail. We
hurt. Unfortunately, we sin as well. I have realized both
my fragile humanity and my mortality over these past six
years.
On the positive side, I look
forward to our Spring Fling parish
picnic this weekend. I thank all who organized and helped prepare what was
necessary to help strengthen our parish community.
Over the next weeks I will try to
enjoy the time I have left as your pastor. The priest needs his people and the
people need their priest to act as a spiritual
father. Working together, may we continue to help build the Kingdom of God
and work together for God’s greater glory.
Fr.
Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Tuesday, May 5, 2026
The Ascension, Mother’s Day and Preparation for Pentecost
Dear Parishioners,
I am sure that the
movement of the celebration of Ascension Thursday to
Sunday (May 17th this year) in the state of New Jersey will continue
to be confusing for most people, and rightly so. Personally, I did not agree
with this move, then or now. People who live in the Archdiocese of
Philadelphia, right over the Delaware River and those across the Hudson River
in the Archdiocese of New York) are still
obliged to observe and attend Mass on the traditional day (Thursday, May 14th,
40 days after Easter). A bit of
confusion for all, wouldn’t you agree?
That being said, when Jesus ascended into heaven after His
time on earth, he never abandoned us. He left us His Body and Blood in the Holy
Eucharist. He remains in His words and teaching in the Sacred Scriptures. The
ordained priest acts in His very person (in
persona Christi) in the sacraments of the Church. He is present where two
or three gather in His Name—community prayer, liturgy and worship, especially
the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass. And, as God-Man, He continues to
intercede for us at the right hand of the Father.
Our humanity is now elevated in Jesus’ glorious
Body and has entered Heaven. The fall and exile of Adam (original sin) is now
reversed through the saving action of Christ, the new Adam. Heaven is open to
us through Him. As He told us, no one comes to the Father except through
Him (Jn. 14:6).
This is what we celebrate.
I also wish all mothers today a happy Mother’s Day! For most
people there is a special bond between mother and child. Our
mothers carry us in their wombs for nine months. They endure the pangs of birth. They
feed us, bathe us, clean up after us, teach us, comfort us, caress
us and, most importantly, love us. How often they are willing to
sacrifice for us!
Thanks moms for your strength, patience and ability
to make things better by your calming and reassuring presence. Whenever we
take you for granted or forget what you have done for us over the years, we
apologize. You deserve better from us. We
love you!
For those (like myself) who have lost their earthly mothers,
please remember to pray for them and have Masses offered for them. Our
faith teaches us, whether they are in purgatory or in heaven, they can pray for
us! Let’s aid them in getting to heaven by offering our prayers, Masses
and sacrifices for them.
In addition to our biological (or adoptive) mothers, I think
that it is also important to remember to honor Mary, our Spiritual Mother as well, especially
in this month of May. We honor Our Lady as our Queen and Mother. She
continues to intercede for her children here on earth and we place our
confident hope and trust in her. Our Blessed Lady should play an essential role
in the lives of Catholics and indeed all Christians. She was given to us as our
mother through St. John at the foot of the cross:
When Jesus saw his mother and the
disciple there whom he loved, he said to his mother, ‘Woman, behold, your son.’
Then he said to the disciple, ‘Behold, your mother.’ And from that hour the
disciple took her into his home. (John 19: 26-27)
Finally, we enter into a period of preparation—originally, nine
days of prayer or a novena—for the
Holy Spirit at Pentecost (May 24th). As the
disciples prayed and awaited the promised Holy Spirit, so should we. The gift
of the Holy Spirit to the Church transformed the lives of early Christians into
true believers and bold witnesses to the risen Christ and His teaching.
One might see the obvious necessity of another outpouring of
the same Holy Spirit for our times!
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Thursday, April 30, 2026
An Honest, Comprehensive Look at Our Parish
Fr. Ed Namiotka
PastorMonday, April 27, 2026
Tuesday, April 21, 2026
First Holy Communion and the May Crowning
Depending on the parish, First Holy Communion frequently is on a Saturday (usually in May) or may also be celebrated at one or more of the Sunday Masses. With our small size, the three First Communicants here will once again be receiving at the Sunday Mass.
It is critical to remember that the two families that should be most important in the children’s lives are their domestic family and their Church family. The parents are the first (and need to be the best) teachers of their children in the ways of faith. It is also necessary to consider that we are preparing the children to be a part of the regular worshipping community that we call the Church. While it may look “nice” or “cute” to have all of the children together in one (or two) ceremonies with their classmates and friends, it is much more essential to emphasize for them the bonds of family and Church. Essentially, we are not preparing them to be with their current friends (who may not be their friends past next week), but to be regular, practicing members of the Catholic Church as experienced through their local parish family.
Monday, April 20, 2026
Thursday, April 16, 2026
The Road to Emmaus
Dear Parishioners,
Many years ago, the priests
of the Diocese of Camden participated in a spirituality program of priestly
fraternity that we referred to as the Emmaus
program. It was based on the scriptural passage from today’s gospel of St. Luke
(Lk. 24: 13-35). Priests were encouraged to make the journey of the two
disciples with Jesus and ultimately to recognize the Risen Jesus in the Breaking of Bread like the disciples.
Notably, the two disciples
were headed away from Jerusalem where Jesus had been crucified. They told the
unknown stranger walking with them that they “were hoping that [Jesus] would be
the one to redeem Israel.” Still, they were heading in the opposite direction.
They had to be instructed how the teachings of the Scriptures, from the time of
Moses and the prophets, referred to Jesus. The Scriptures were explained and
interpreted for them.
Later, after the stranger
was persuaded to stay for the meal, “he took bread, said the blessing, broke
it, and gave it to them.” Note the Eucharistic formula and tone. And they
finally recognized Jesus in the “breaking of bread.” He became present for them
under the appearance of bread, and
then disappeared from their sight.
This excerpt from the gospel
is theologically important as it parallels the structure of the Catholic Mass: Liturgy of the Word and Liturgy of the Eucharist. First, the
Scriptures are interpreted and explained for us. Then, the sacrificial meal is
shared in which Jesus becomes present in the Breaking of Bread. Hopefully, we can better understand how this
passage illustrates our pattern of worship and what we believe actually happens
during the Mass.
Belief in the Real Presence of Jesus in the Holy
Eucharist is an essential, non-negotiable teaching of the Catholic Church. The
disciples recognized Jesus’ presence in the Eucharist while he disappeared physically from their sight.
Catholics are called at every Mass to
a faith seeing Jesus in the breaking
of bread.
Additionally, from this
passage we can learn about a redirection that was made in the lives of these
disciples. Although they were initially headed in the opposite direction—away
from the cross—they were turned around and returned to Jerusalem and to the
Apostles. Whenever we might be journeying in the wrong direction in our lives,
Jesus can help to reroute us back to the proper course. This can apply to matters
both great and small.
While we have heard before
about many Catholics not understanding or believing in the Real Presence of
Jesus in the Holy Eucharist, it appears that these disciples in the early
Church understood that Jesus was truly resurrected and present with them and remained
with them in the breaking of bread.
Pray that the Lord may redirect
our hearts and minds when they go astray and increase our belief in His Real
Presence in the Holy Eucharist. He remains with us!
Fr.
Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Friday, April 10, 2026
Tuesday, April 7, 2026
Jesus, I Trust in Thee!
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Saturday, April 4, 2026
Easter: A Time for Renewed Hope
Friday, April 3, 2026
Monday, March 30, 2026
Holy Week and Easter 2026
Dear Parishioners,
This weekend we begin
the most sacred week of the year for Christians. We recall Christ’s passion,
death and resurrection. We are reminded of all that God has done for us in
sending us His Only Begotten Son.
Palm
Sunday recalls Jesus’ triumphant entry into the
city of Jerusalem. His royal reception sees Him being lauded by the
crowd: Hosanna to the Son of David; blessed is he who comes in the name
of the Lord; hosanna in the highest. (Mt. 21:9) However,
entering Jerusalem meant that Jesus was now ready to begin His bitter passion
and to face death on a cross. The crowd quickly turned on Him as they
chanted: Let him be crucified! . . . Let him be crucified! (Mt. 27: 22-23) We can see how quickly any glory and honor that
the world may have for any of us can change to ridicule, scorn and
even hatred. Sic transit gloria
mundi.
On Holy Thursday (7:00
PM Mass) we recall the Last Supper where Jesus instituted
the Holy Eucharist and the Ministerial Priesthood. Priesthood
and the Holy Eucharist are intimately connected: without the Priesthood,
there would be no Holy Eucharist. Jesus’ actions also
remind us of the call to service displayed by the mandatum or
washing of the apostles’ feet. Do you realize what I have done
for you? You call me ‘teacher’ and ‘master,’ and rightly so, for
indeed I am. If I, therefore, the master and teacher, have
washed your feet, you ought to wash one another’s feet. I have given
you a model to follow, so that as I have done for you, you should also
do. (Jn. 13: 12-15) The Blessed Sacrament will remain in
the repository in our chapel until 10 PM, where there is time for silent
prayer and adoration.
The liturgy of the Passion
of the Lord on Good Friday (3 PM Service) has
3 main components: a reading of the passion account from St. John’s gospel
followed by various intercessions, veneration of the cross and Holy
Communion. Masses are not offered on Good Friday. In
addition, the Stations of the Cross will be observed in the chapel
at 7 PM. (This day remains a day of fast—one full meal—and abstinence from
meat.)
The Easter Vigil (7:30 PM Mass) is not intended as a Mass to be rushed through
quickly. (Please note: Mass usually lasts minimally
about 2 hours.) There are so many beautiful parts that, if done
reverently and properly, should not be hurried or omitted. We begin with a
lighting of the Easter fire and a candlelight ceremony. Then follows the
singing of the Exultet or Easter Proclamation. Salvation
history is traced through a series of readings as the congregation is reminded
of how God has continued to work in and through every age. After the
readings comes the time to bring new members into the Catholic Church
through Baptism and the reception of other Sacraments
of Initiation—Confirmation & Holy Communion. (Unfortunately,
there are no candidates or catechumens in our parish for the vigil Mass
this year. We certainly need to
encourage others among our family and friends who are not Catholic to consider
becoming Catholic.) The Easter water is blessed at this time and sprinkled on
the congregation as we renew our baptismal promises. Finally, Mass
continues in normal fashion with the Liturgy of the Eucharist.
Please consider participation in these liturgies of the Easter Triduum. All of us need to be reminded of the saving events Christ undertook out of love for us, sinners. Any extra time we might choose to spend in Church pales in comparison to His many hours of suffering when He was mocked, tortured and died for us on the cross.
The Masses
for Easter Sunday are at the usual times: 8:30 AM and 11 AM.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Sunday, March 22, 2026
Homily for the 5th Sunday in Lent "A" - Fr. Edward Namiotka
Monday, March 16, 2026
Lenten Advice for the Procrastinator, Underachiever or Spiritual Slug
Dear Parishioners,
How is your Lent so far? Lent is nearing its end. Next week is Palm Sunday and Holy Week begins. Maybe you attempted only some of the recommended
practices of prayer, fasting and almsgiving. Maybe you did little or nothing. Maybe you tried,
failed and then gave up entirely.
Stop! It
is never too late to pick up the pieces and move forward once again. It is not too late to start changing your life for the
better. I have been there. Sadly, there were times in the past when I would
think that my practice of Lent seemed to be a failure (or at least much less
than I originally, idealistically intended.) Let me give some advice looking
forward.
First, make sure you take
some time to examine your conscience thoroughly and get to the Sacrament of Penance
and Reconciliation (confession) before Easter. To me, there is nothing
more fruitful for a person than to humble oneself before God and to admit one’s
sinfulness to Him in this grace-filled sacrament. I have seen lives dramatically
change over my past four decades of hearing people’s sins. I know well that I too
am a sinful human instrument in this
process. However, it is Jesus who forgives
the sins. As a Catholic priest, I absolve in
His Name. We all need God’s forgiveness and He indeed is abundantly merciful.
Don’t wait to the last minute when the confession lines tend to get long. To borrow
a Nike slogan: Just do it!
Second, add some prayer time to what you are already attempting. Maybe you
can pray a rosary, open the Holy Bible and start reading, participate in the Stations of the Cross, go to daily Mass,
make a visit to the Blessed Sacrament, or go to your inner room and simply talk
to God from the heart. These and other personal ways of trying to connect with
the Almighty—the God who created you, loves you and redeemed you—are never a
waste of time. God hears all, sees all and knows the deepest longing of our
hearts. Talk to Him. He’s waiting.
Next, if you are ready
for the ultimate challenge, attempt a No Device Day. I have often recommended
this as a means of penance (or fasting). Put the phone or tablet down.
Shut off the computer. Go radio silence
for the day. I think today some might call it ghosting—disappearing with no contact or communication. We are just
too dependent on technology for most everything. Maybe it will have to occur on
a day off from work, when we do not have business or other obligations, but try
to do it if you can. It is actually quite liberating. God often speaks in the silence.
Finally, do something nice for
someone without expecting any recognition or reciprocity. This personally
chosen act of charity should make someone’s life a little better or easier.
There is no limit to the creative ways in which we can help others. Decide on one.
Honestly, we never really know how
much time we have left, do we?
Take action while there’s
still time to make a difference in your life and in someone else’s life this
Lent.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
Tuesday, March 10, 2026
Never Ending Wars and Military Conflicts
Dear Parishioners,
- the damage inflicted by the aggressor on the nation or community of nations must be lasting, grave, and certain;
- all other means of putting an end to it must have been shown to be impractical or ineffective;
- there must be serious prospects of success;
- the use of arms must not produce evils and disorders graver than the evil to be eliminated. The power of modem means of destruction weighs very heavily in evaluating this condition.
- Legitimate Authority (auctoritas principis): War must be declared by a lawful sovereign, not by private individuals.
- Just Cause (causa iusta): There must be a real and grave reason, such as defense against aggression or rectification of grave injustice.
- Right Intention (intentio recta): The goal must be to advance good or avoid evil, not vengeance or conquest.
Pastor
Monday, March 9, 2026
Monday, March 2, 2026
Lessons from the "Woman at the Well"
Sunday, March 1, 2026
Wednesday, February 25, 2026
The Transfiguration
Dear Parishioners,
Just as the 1st
Sunday of Lent annually begins with Jesus’ 40 days in the desert confronting
Satan, the 2nd Sunday of Lent each year concerns the Transfiguration of Jesus.
Thus, we should consider its significance.
Jesus is with his inner
circle: Peter, James and John. They alone accompany Him during certain
important events in Jesus’ ministry (the Agony
in the Garden, the healing of Jairus’ daughter). On this high mountain
Jesus is seen in glory. His face and His clothes were brilliant, perhaps
anticipating His future Resurrection
from the dead. The appearance of two Old Testament figures, Moses and Elijah, shows Jesus in connection to the Law and the Prophets,
which Jesus stated that he came to fulfill (see Mt. 5: 17).
Then comes the overshadowing cloud and the voice from on high. The other time when
such an occurrence transpires is Jesus’ Baptism where the voice of the Father
was heard. The image of an overshadowing
is also reminiscent of when the Blessed Virgin Mary was overshadowed by the
Holy Spirit at the Annunciation. The presence
of the Holy Trinity indeed seems plausible.
Why
did this event happen? Why do we consider it specifically during Lent?
One can certainly argue that
Jesus wanted to strengthen the faith of these apostles prior to the scandal of the cross. Jesus is going to
be tortured and killed. Peter would deny Him and the other disciples, except John,
would flee the scene. Yet, He now appears in glory as He will
post-Resurrection. The Father’s voice reassures and directs them: This
is my beloved Son, with whom I am well pleased; listen to him. We already know that the apostles were weak, flawed men.
It would only be with the fortitude that they were given by the Holy Spirit
that they later would be able to preach, teach and baptize in the name of the Lord
Jesus to the various peoples.
During this Lenten season we
can become discouraged. We can sometimes make Lenten resolutions and then fail
to carry them out. Additionally, we can go through times of dryness in prayer
and question whether anything is happening or if our prayers even matter. We
can also battle temptation. It is for times like these when the Transfiguration is significant. Jesus
appears in glory. He is identified as
the Son of God—not just some ordinary
human being or prophet. He indicates a future Resurrection from the dead. He provides hope and increases faith.
Like Peter, James and John,
sometimes God might even provide for us supernatural
religious experiences during our life and faith journeys to strengthen us.
Many times during the course of my priesthood various people have related to me
occasions when God was inexplicably present for them through signs, events or even
miracles. I have even had a few of these experiences personally. Don’t ever underestimate
what God can do for any of us at any time!
As we continue our personal
40 day journey with Jesus into the desert this Lent, realize that He
accompanies us the entire time. Sometimes, He may even lead us up to mountain
to experience things beyond expectation and comprehension.
Fr. Ed Namiotka
Pastor
















