Monday, March 16, 2026

Lenten Advice for the Procrastinator, Underachiever or Spiritual Slug

 


Dear Parishioners,

How is your Lent so far? Lent is nearing its end. Next week is Palm Sunday and Holy Week begins. Maybe you attempted only some of the recommended practices of prayer, fasting and almsgiving. Maybe you did little or nothing. Maybe you tried, failed and then gave up entirely.

Stop! It is never too late to pick up the pieces and move forward once again. It is not too late to start changing your life for the better. I have been there. Sadly, there were times in the past when I would think that my practice of Lent seemed to be a failure (or at least much less than I originally, idealistically intended.) Let me give some advice looking forward.

First, make sure you take some time to examine your conscience thoroughly and get to the Sacrament of Penance and Reconciliation (confession) before Easter. To me, there is nothing more fruitful for a person than to humble oneself before God and to admit one’s sinfulness to Him in this grace-filled sacrament. I have seen lives dramatically change over my past four decades of hearing people’s sins. I know well that I too am a sinful human instrument in this process. However, it is Jesus who forgives the sins. As a Catholic priest, I absolve in His Name. We all need God’s forgiveness and He indeed is abundantly merciful. Don’t wait to the last minute when the confession lines tend to get long. To borrow a Nike slogan: Just do it!

Second, add some prayer time to what you are already attempting. Maybe you can pray a rosary, open the Holy Bible and start reading, participate in the Stations of the Cross, go to daily Mass, make a visit to the Blessed Sacrament, or go to your inner room and simply talk to God from the heart. These and other personal ways of trying to connect with the Almighty—the God who created you, loves you and redeemed you—are never a waste of time. God hears all, sees all and knows the deepest longing of our hearts. Talk to Him. He’s waiting.

Next, if you are ready for the ultimate challenge, attempt a No Device Day. I have often recommended this as a means of penance (or fasting). Put the phone or tablet down. Shut off the computer. Go radio silence for the day. I think today some might call it ghosting—disappearing with no contact or communication. We are just too dependent on technology for most everything. Maybe it will have to occur on a day off from work, when we do not have business or other obligations, but try to do it if you can. It is actually quite liberating. God often speaks in the silence.

Finally, do something nice for someone without expecting any recognition or reciprocity. This personally chosen act of charity should make someone’s life a little better or easier. There is no limit to the creative ways in which we can help others. Decide on one.

Honestly, we never really know how much time we have left, do we?

Take action while there’s still time to make a difference in your life and in someone else’s life this Lent.

Fr. Ed Namiotka

Pastor

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